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New Mom Worries

Posted on 5/12/2009 by Denise

Isn’t it funny how new mom’s worry about every little thing?  Okay, maybe not funny, but it makes for some funny stories later.  We all worry from the very beginning; will he have all of their fingers and toes?  Will he be smart?  Will he ever sleep through the night!?!   So far, I’ve worried more than my fair share – needlessly.

For example, I worried that we wasn’t getting enough to eat.  I’m breast-feeding and just a few weeks back he began to do this weird fussing while he was eating.  Well the fussing stopped and we went for his 2 month check up.  He’s up to 11 pounds now – meaning he gained over 4 pounds in just 7 weeks!  So, he’s obviously getting enough to eat.  (As if the fat rolls that are cropping up on his arms and legs shouldn’t have been clue enough)!

In between worrying about him, I’ve enjoyed seeing him change and develop.  Each week it seems he’s discovered something new or can do a new “trick.”  Although I hope and worry that he’ll develop at the right speed I’ve found myself wishing he would just stop growing already.  It is amazing how quickly they change and grow!  I’m already “worrying” that he’ll grow up and leave or that he’ll outgrow his mom’s kisses. 

I’m sure some of these worries will never go away.  And, with his growing and changing there will be new things to worry about.  The first time he walks and bumps his head.  The first time he gets into a fight with his best friend.  The first time he gets his heart broken by a girl.  The first time he drives a car alone.  I suspect some things will never change and every good mom worries… at least a little.
 

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  • this is very helpful. I'm glad blogs like this are out there for mother's to share.

    saucy on 5/14/2009 at 9:22 AM
  • i just had a baby two month ago we find that she has many thind wrong with her we still dont know what is wrong with her sometime you can take one day at a time

    DETRA CRAFT on 5/13/2009 at 6:38 PM
  • Gosh, I was hoping that worry gene had not been passed along from your grandma. Motherhood develops a great deal of faith and trust in us. This too will come with experience like most things do. Love you honey! Centisible's mom

    Susan on 5/13/2009 at 5:44 PM
  • Welcome to motherhood! It's a wonderful but never ending worry-fest.

    terra washburn on 5/13/2009 at 3:11 PM
  • I have many of these worries, and can tell you that they never go away...but they do get better. Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. - Elizabeth Stone This quote pretty much sums up how I feel in a nutshell... There's nothing you can really do to prevent the worrying, just relax, enjoy your baby, and steal as many kisses as you can right now! :)

    Andrea on 5/13/2009 at 2:28 PM
  • Aww...Denise, I have 3 children and now 2 grandchildren. The kisses haven't stopped, or the I LOVE YOu's. My son who is graduating from high school this year will KISS me before he leaves to school lol The worrying doesn't stop and by the way I haven't slept for 24 years. (when my oldest daughter was born) Enjoy your precious baby, it goes way too fast!

    Victoria on 5/12/2009 at 11:27 PM
  • Be careful when stockpiling diapers. Babies grow into the next size very fast. Save your receipt just in case you need to exchange them. Maria

    SavingQueen_com on 5/12/2009 at 11:22 PM
  • Breastfeeding got me through the nights. I was able to nurse while co-sleeping with my baby. I was able to sleep, not worry about warming up formula and did not have to wash bottles.

    Maria on 5/12/2009 at 11:20 PM
  • I used to worry that my son was never going to be potty trained. As he was approaching his 2nd birthday, I was feeling the pressure to potty train him. He was aware of his bodily functions. He would hide in the corner to do his business in his pull-up! A friend told me not to worry, because he would not go to kindergarten in a diaper. Whether it happened in that month or when he was 3, he would be potty trained before kindergarten! I did relax a little after that. Those few months still went by in slow motion! We get caught up in the moment and think that everything has to be now, now, now. So, relax your kids will be out of diapers before kindergarten! Maria SavingQueen.com

    SavingQueen_com on 5/12/2009 at 11:16 PM
  • I know my 4 kids appreciate me being home with them. my oldest is 18.Youngest is 1. I am classsmom for them, we do Mommy and me and library activity classes together, go on field trips,etc..They will look back on this when they are older as I remember with my mom. I learned from her how to be the greatest stay home mom from her example. They appreciate coming home from school and smelling what I'm cooking for dinner.

    Toni on 5/12/2009 at 9:29 PM
  • Denise, stick to your plan to be a stay at home mom. It's worth it. I am a stay at home mom of 4. My husband works a second job so I can be home and it's tough because he is out from morning until midnight. I love the time I spend with my kids and in the future you will not have the guilt, or no regrets. I struggle and learn to live without alot of things. It's worth it.

    Toni on 5/12/2009 at 8:55 PM
  • I was so worried my baby would get my nose (quite the honker, let me tell you)and sure enough he did... Funny thing is that it looks perfect on him.

    SavingMom on 5/12/2009 at 8:31 PM
  • Yup! You're 100% right that the worrying never ends. :-) All you can do is enjoy every single solitary moment. You are going to look at him one day, and he'll be 7 ('almost 10, Moooom!') and too big to kiss Mama in public. :-( Ask me how I know. Good luck and God Bless, Alexia http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/ourfunhouseofgod/

    Alexia on 5/12/2009 at 8:26 PM
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